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01/31/2007
Oneness Threat 1 – Difficult Adjustments
There is little in our culture today that encourages two people to make the difficult adjustments required to achieve marital oneness.
Contrasting Backgrounds
+ Values
+ Vocation/Calling
+ Religion
+ Finances
+ Family History
+ Past Relationships
+ Painful experiences
Superficial Motives for getting married.
+ Feelings
+ Sexual Attraction/Involvement
+ Cultural/Family Pressure to get married
+ Escape
Different Expectations
+ Roles
+ Expression of Love
+ Sexual Performance
+ Plans for the future
Unrealistic Expectations (We'll talk more about this in our next Threat To Oneness)
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