073 My Crazy Life – Oneness Threat #2

by Cliff Ravenscraft on February 1, 2007

in PABL Episodes 1 - 250, Pursuing A Balanced Life

02/1/2007

Threat 2 – The Performance Trap!

Accepting someone based upon their performance. “You do your part, and I'll do mine.”
+ This leads to a problem in only giving affection when one feels it is DESERVED.
+ This leads us into a trap where action is solely based upon how one “feels.”

* The performance trap can cause a marriage to “Self Destruct!” Why?
+ Our inability to meet unreal expectations.
+ The fact that it is impossible to know that my spouse has met me halfway.
+ Disappointment in my spouse will paralyze my own performance.
+ And believe it or not, this can lead to a desire to “get revenge” when you have been wronged.

The Performance Trap will only lead a married couple down a path toward isolation!

Here are the links mentioned from Faith McQuinn:

Faith's Editing Reel:

Faith's short film titled “Wedlock”

Some other stuff from faith can be found here…
www.geocities.com/[email protected]

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